November 12, 2008
My life’s future is going down, advise is highly appriciated?
hi everybody, i wanted to ask some opinions from all of you, all your opinions, suggestions, all the replies to my question will be highgly appriciated. My life is all good, i am happily married, there is no issued with health wise in my family. but since the begining of this year which is 2008, my financial side is a disaster, whatever i do no matter what it never works out. i had a job and i lost it, after that i tried many vacancies, interview’s, home based jobs, nothing really works. i have a bad feeling that success is very far away. I am a buddhist, what can i do to recover from this dark black cloud of bad luck which befelled upon my life. Should i meditate? will it work? i don’t know what else to do. If you are a person is from another religion, please feel free to advise me in your own ways, i highly value your advise no matter what it is. I am trying a bit of feng shui in my home now, to see if i can get things right. (Please note that i am doing my best to get a job, trying hard as i can, i know putting some effort is the most important thing, but in my case it makes no sense, it’s like trying to push a huge rock all by my self ). I hope you do understand my question, i know you might feel it is bit pointless, if clarifications needed please feel free to ask me.
Thanking you in millions for reading my question.
I’m really sorry to hear you are having so much trouble. I can give you some advice though that might help out. Well for the job it might be a good idea to see if there are any temp agencies near you. These companies keep your information on hand and when other companies tell them they need a position filled just temporarily the temp agency will call if you are qualified for the job and they will let you know where to go and how long you will be there as well as the hours and pay. It is not something you will want to do indefinitely but for a quick fix it is a fairly good idea. Also it will help if you learn how to live frugally, for food you could search for a place that works with Angel Food Ministries (usually churches). They provide anyone (there are no qualifications or limitations) with about $75 worth of food for only $20. They are great people and the food is excellent. You can also ask around at churches to see if they have food pantries. A lot of churches will give out free food to those who need it. If your kids need any school clothes or supplies churches are a great place to ask for that as well. There are second hand shops like Goodwill for many other things you may need. As a last resort you can look into going on medicaid and get WIC. For medicaid you should contact the state or local agency that handles the medicaid program. Its name will vary from place to place. It may be called Social Services, Public Aid, Public Welfare, Human Services, or something similar. Keep working on staying healthy on the inside. You don’t want to fall into depression. I hope things turn around for you and your family and I hope some of what I have said here helps you.
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First of all my dear fellow human being. 2008 has been a very difficult year for most people. The economy all over the world has been suffering. However, even though I don’t know much about your religion I believe that all religions teach positive thinking. If you reiterate that everything is going down in your life, then that is what will happen. Everything will go down. If you have a “bad” feeling that success if very far away, then, for you, success will be very far away. It is very important that we all have a positive outlook on life. We attract what we think. If we think negativity, then we attract negativity. If we speak negativity, then we also attract even more negativity.
I suggest that you change your thinking and your language. Say things like “I know I have been experiencing some difficulties but that is all in the past. Today is the first day of my new life where everything good and everything positive will be flowing to me. Today I expect nothing but the best — I will be breathing prosperity into my body and exhaling prosperity because it will be overflowing. I am blessed and prosperous and will give back the surplus that will be received by me to others in need.”
Say and think things like that and you will be successful.
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http://www.astrotaro.com
http://www.stemcellanew.com
I do some meditation and one of my son had studied Buddhism and he like it very much ; but [at 66 ]I learn that life can be very hard on you ; doesn’t matter what you are doing ; but I also notice that we had a map to followed and this map is in your natal chart ; so if you want to give me your D O B [ and please this way ]born June the 5 2009 ] I will do my best to find out why you had so much bad luck in your finance and I will tell you as much as I can about your future
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Hi there,
Have you heard about the secret (maybe the book or the dvd)? if you haven’t then i suggest to read/watch it. I do understand that you are in dark phase of your life and bad things seems to be coming one after another. I’ve been there too, but then i realized that all this bad things is keeping me away from pursuing the life that i want. I want happiness, i want to be wealthy, i want to have something good in my life, this is all the things that i want. But what do i complaints everyday? i’m not happy, i’m not wealthy and i’m not having good life.. and all of this thought is attracting another bad situation. I’ve began to change my thought to think more positively, it’s hard i know. the most easy way to do this is to say thank you for what have you had, like thank you for giving me my very lovely wife, and all the things that you have. if you think that meditate could help then by all means do it! but you have to feel something, you have to believe! And have a great feeling about that! And i guaranteed that everything that you believe and what ever you want will manifest! Don’t focus and see your life the way that you don’t want to be! I could send you the book if you want to but I’m suggesting you search it your self. Everything that i said is in the book. Feel free to mail me gackt_2305. sorry for the bad English
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I’m really sorry to hear you are having so much trouble. I can give you some advice though that might help out. Well for the job it might be a good idea to see if there are any temp agencies near you. These companies keep your information on hand and when other companies tell them they need a position filled just temporarily the temp agency will call if you are qualified for the job and they will let you know where to go and how long you will be there as well as the hours and pay. It is not something you will want to do indefinitely but for a quick fix it is a fairly good idea. Also it will help if you learn how to live frugally, for food you could search for a place that works with Angel Food Ministries (usually churches). They provide anyone (there are no qualifications or limitations) with about $75 worth of food for only $20. They are great people and the food is excellent. You can also ask around at churches to see if they have food pantries. A lot of churches will give out free food to those who need it. If your kids need any school clothes or supplies churches are a great place to ask for that as well. There are second hand shops like Goodwill for many other things you may need. As a last resort you can look into going on medicaid and get WIC. For medicaid you should contact the state or local agency that handles the medicaid program. Its name will vary from place to place. It may be called Social Services, Public Aid, Public Welfare, Human Services, or something similar. Keep working on staying healthy on the inside. You don’t want to fall into depression. I hope things turn around for you and your family and I hope some of what I have said here helps you.
References :
http://jobsearch.about.com/cs/tempjobs/a/tempjobs.htm
http://www.angelfoodministries.com/
http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/howtoapply/
Hello,
I am sorry to hear you have such poor financial situation. Otherwise your life is good, that is excellent.
You are Buddhist. This is a very forgiving and compassionate religion. If you have not already gone to a Buddhist Spiritual Adviser this will be your next step. You will become active in Sangha and do daily practice as you are advised by your Teacher. I understand you have to put time and energy into looking for work and your teacher will help you arrange your schedule. You will involve your family but if they don’t want to participate you don’t push, you just love them and bring them gifts like a flower blossom you find floating in puddle you give your wife, for a few pennies you buy some sweets for your children and you pray over these.
You don’t say what type of Buddhism you practice, but if you are Chinese, I recall there are three household gods that must be honored equally. perhaps you do not have statues for all three or perhaps the placement needs to be changed (you mention a try at feng shui, maybe it is for placement of household gods). Sorry I am out of ideas- one more OK- what set this financial free-fall off? Maybe you find answer there.
Blessings,
Miss Zoe
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Maybe when you find a job that really makes you happy and makes you feel satisfied, the bad luck will stop!
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My short postings in my blog have all the answers to your doubt and it’s buddhistic based.
Adam’s Fengshui Blog
Blog address:
http://adamfengshui.blogspot.com
Forum address:
http://n2.nabble.com/Adam%27s-Fengshui-Forum-f1128374.html
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Sorry to hear about your current financial situation. Just like with everything else, this too shall pass.
Step 1. Take a look at this video
http://www.kenlauher.com/daily-wisdom/bid/7084/When-You-Fall-Down-In-Life-and-Don-t-Feel-Like-You-Have-The-Strength-To-Get-Back-Up
Step 2. Visit http://www.kenlauher.com for your free feng shui guide and review the areas of your home and bedroom.
Step 3. Meditation is always a great answer. I think you will find that if you can slow down the mind and reconnect with yourself and be in your body, that you will triumph over this. It is all about connecting with your true self. Remember this is just ripples on top of the lake but at the bottom of the lake (your true self) you have the passion, energy, drive and success to do what you love and get paid well for it.
Step 4. Consider adopting an exercise program
Step 5. Reconnect with nature. Maybe just some walks in the park.
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